Hey guys!

I had the most awesome, relaxing week ever! I can count on one hand how many homework assignments I had to do. Not that lack of homework constitutes a happy week. I just had a great week.

It started with a test. This test was quite a big test, and I needed to pass it for my major emphasis.

My major is Elementary Education, with an emphasis on Teaching English as a Second Language. When I found out about this emphasis, I just knew it was for me. But the only problem I had was this–in order to keep this emphasis, you need to take 12 credits of a language. My second language is Japanese. But they don’t teach Japanese at BYU-Idaho. So, I needed to take (and pass) a test that said I was proficient enough that I didn’t have to take those classes.

The test is called the “FLATS” test, and it is offered through BYU-Provo. I took it on Monday, and (drumroll…) I passed it with flying colors!

My good friend celebrated with me, and we went to eat shakes at the Berg. It was just a good day (though I developed a big headache afterwards)!

Then, the next day, in my religion class, we talked about dating! It was a great discussion! My teacher shared about how he met his wife, and he also shared some stories from when he was young and his experiences with dating. ^^

I learned the most important things about dating from that one hour I had that day in religion class. I realized that it’s OK to go on multiple first dates with different people. Saying “yes” to a first date should not necessarily mean that you’re going to be boyfriend/girlfriend. It just means you’re going to go and get to know the other person. It’s essentially hanging out with just the two of you.

I really like this definition of a date. Think about it. If this were the normal perception of saying yes to a date, more people would go on dates. They would get to know so many more people. Then, out of all the ones they met, they would be able to decide who they want to really go steady with.

Now, I want to clarify something! I believe in complete chastity before marriage. I choose to date people for their personality, not for their sexual appeal. I believe that being able to hold a conversation with my date is more important than the physical affection I show. I already know I can hold hands with anyone. The question I have is, “Am I going to be able to enjoy this person’s company for the rest of my life, and beyond?”

Another question that I ask is, “Do I agree with my date? Would I be able to raise a family with this person?”

A couple weeks ago, my Mother gave me this advice: Dating is like doing job interviews. You go to many interviews, but you don’t get every job.

This week has taught me a lot. The best time I had this week was the date I went on on Saturday! It was a boy from the religion class I mentioned earlier. We sit by each other in class, so we’re good friends. I had my doubts about whether I would enjoy it (because of the last few dates I’ve been on with others), but I really did enjoy it!

I loved that I got to experience all that I learned this week! ^^ I love that God answers my prayers too! I just know that He’s there.

Love you guys!

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